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haha condonms dont protect against aids

it only prevents pregnancy

Seriously?

Reply to all of that, there are as much people who don't see pre-marital sex as something good as those who do. I think it's somehow to do with religious beliefs, maybe not. Personally, besides the fact that my religion already says that, I fully believe in it and see all the postive things about it then many who don't agree with me wouldn't see. Even if I suddenly stopped being a muslim, I would still not have sex beore marriage.

People see sex as something to 'do' when you are stressed out, others don't. Instead they see it as something valued.

To be honest, I see it almost impossible to convince someone who opposes pre-marital sex to do it, same goes for the other hand; if you see pre-marital sex has nothing wrong about it, then no one can convice you otherwise. It's like convincing people driving cars is not good.

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haha condonms dont protect against aids

it only prevents pregnancy

Seriously?

Reply to all of that, there are as much people who don't see pre-marital sex as something good as those who do. I think it's somehow to do with religious beliefs, maybe not. Personally, besides the fact that my religion already says that, I fully believe in it and see all the postive things about it then many who don't agree with me wouldn't see. Even if I suddenly stopped being a muslim, I would still not have sex beore marriage.

People see sex as something to 'do' when you are stressed out, others don't. Instead they see it as something valued.

To be honest, I see it almost impossible to convince someone who opposes pre-marital sex to do it, same goes for the other hand; if you see pre-marital sex has nothing wrong about it, then no one can convice you otherwise. It's like convincing people driving cars is not good.

What if you have sex for the first time after marriage and realize you've been wasting your time all along? What if you try to drive a car and realize it's really not that bad?

Here's the thing, as far as I can see it. No pre-marital sex assumes that sex is some sort of love-related sacred tradition, something we should reserve for the right person in some sort of a gesture.

But have you ever seen dogs ****ing? I mean, watch a random porn video on the internet (without animals, preferably). Sex is hot and sweaty and hairy and not at all pretty or cuddly or candle-related. It's a primal, instinctive thing hearkening back millions of years that is so completely different from, say, a business meeting that it's a wonder the two can coexist at all.

Also there are lots of differences between females and males in terms of physiology. Men get horny a lot more (erections can be spontaneous and random.. like the ones we get every time we wake up) and are also easier to bring to a climax, so most of us are not that anti-masturbation/pre-marital sex. Girls find it much harder but when a girl climaxes it's meant to be like 10 times as powerful and ecstatic as when a guy does (unfair) which means, if you succeed (and often you don't - many girls have this image of sex being painful, uncomfortable and unrewarding) then girls like sex just as much as men, maybe (probably!) more.

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But have you ever seen dogs ****ing? I mean, watch a random porn video on the internet (without animals, preferably). Sex is hot and sweaty and hairy and not at all pretty or cuddly or candle-related. It's a primal, instinctive thing hearkening back millions of years.

Just because it's not 'sacred' doesn't mean it can't be intimate, what with the candles and the rose-petals. Whatever enhances the sensation for those involved in the act is really all that's important. But I agree, sex is inherently primal and in no way supernatural, however you spin it.

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I believe pre-marital sex or no is very much a culture/personal outlook thing. I think that having sex before marriage if you don't believe in it is just as tragic as waiting if you are not sure you believe in waiting. If you look at sex as something you only have with your husband, why change because someone else thinks it's strange?.. and vice versa.

Personally, I don't think waiting for marriage would have worked for me. Why? Because I personally think there is too much drama in first times, especially since for many girls the first time hurts and finding the right spots takes either some exploration, time and practice or a bucket full of luck and therefore I would much rather like to be a little more knowledgeable when the big moment comes along :( (whether that be when I realize I want to spend the rest of my life with my guy, may it be another guy than the one I am with now or when I decide that there is no one at all for me and I am going to be a celibate (or spend the rest of my life doing one night stands, which I hope not))

On the other hand it could be the best experience if you think first time is so very important to do with your ever-after and you feel the excitement around the moment and to grow sexually with your ever-after partner... sounds pretty romantic when I think about it (I've talked about this a lot with a friend who thinks so) but for me.. it just doesn't feel right, so it's not my way to go :(

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There are studies that say that sex stimulates brain health by so much. It is a vital activity for human beings. I can't remember one of the examples but people who deprive themselves of sex or don't get any are more likely to develop some form of neuroligical disorder whether it be amnesia or not. And to be quite frank if you believe in science you should believe in 'just sex' and not some only marriage thing. I am catholic but I think that waiting for marriage is not worth it even though it means that you open yourself completely to your new partner.

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There are studies that say that sex stimulates brain health by so much. It is a vital activity for human beings. I can't remember one of the examples but people who deprive themselves of sex or don't get any are more likely to develop some form of neuroligical disorder whether it be amnesia or not. And to be quite frank if you believe in science you should believe in 'just sex' and not some only marriage thing. I am catholic but I think that waiting for marriage is not worth it even though it means that you open yourself completely to your new partner.

I don't think that there would be any side effects of celibacy, aside from maybe a bunch of social problems. Isaac Newton never married, yet he was a great mathematician and physicist. I'm pretty sure he did not have any neurological disorders. Nevertheless, whether one wants to be celibate, only have sex during marriage, or have premarital sex should be up to the individual.

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I don't think that there would be any side effects of celibacy, aside from maybe a bunch of social problems. Isaac Newton never married, yet he was a great mathematician and physicist. I'm pretty sure he did not have any neurological disorders. Nevertheless, whether one wants to be celibate, only have sex during marriage, or have premarital sex should be up to the individual.

Neurological disorders don't necessarily impair 'mental' aptitude or intelligence. And I said are more likely not definitely.

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